Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Pictures at last!





The girls' first day of school!


Thursday, September 10, 2009

Hello World!

So much has happened since my last post, I don't even know where to begin! Our shipment of belongings was delayed due to an unexpected re-route to Rotterdam. That threw us a bit off schedule, but a long last we were able to move into our house. First impressions: Giants moving into a dollhouse. Everything in England seems to be smaller than in the States. I had to buy new baking trays because mine wouldn't fit into the oven! The first two weeks here were tough ones. Lot's of crying, stress and emotion on my part. The kids were excited and happy to be reunited with all their toys, but quickly became bored and whiny. Ciaran and I spent our anniversary arguing at Ikea.

Our phone and computer didn't get hooked up until just recently, so I have been feeling very isolated and trapped. Driving is easier now, but in those first weeks, we were pretty much dependent on Ciaran to take us places.

Today is Emma's first day of school and Aine started last week. I was really looking forward to the kids starting school so I could have a bit of peace and quiet. I can't believe how much I miss them already. I know they're safe, but as a mother, you always feel your kids are safer and more protected in your own care. Emma and Aine are very cute in their school uniforms! It's nice not having to worry about what your kids are going to wear everyday.

I'm still navigating the new school system; learning what things are called and how things are done. I think kids are expected to be more independent here than in the States. Aine's teachers must be sick of me and all my questions, but I'm terrified of Aine getting looked over, left out or made to feel she isn't smart enough for "English school". Although I would never have the patience or discipline to home school, I'm so close to hopping in the car to go bring my babies home! Is it me or does it seem like it's inappropriate for 6 year-olds to change for P.E. in the same room as those of the opposite gender? I know most kids at that age are pretty innocent, but it's still bothering me, nonetheless. And while I'm on the subject, since when do kids that young dress down for P.E.? I didn't have to bring gym clothes to school until I was in junior high. Maybe that's the norm here, but I've been trying to figure out how to broach the subject with Aine's teacher without coming off like I'm accusing them of doing something wrong. Also, the kids in Aine's class are going on an overnight stay at some camp in October. Aine is thrilled with the notion of a class "sleepover". I am, however, less than excited about my barely 6 yr. old going on an overnighter. Am I being too protective and nuerotic or is it time to cut the apron strings and have some faith in the people I have entrusted to educate my daughter?